Men and women most often would like a partner, some want a life partner as in marriage, others find friends with benefits a better arrangement, and some people want to get laid once in a while.
Or should I make it simple and say humans generally want to have sex with someone other than themselves. Some of you succeed. Others fail miserably and then whine about there not being anyone out there to hook up with.
Sex appeal is important, duh, and a lot of you don’t have it and don’t have a clue about how to get it. Read this article. It’s easy to read. Very informative and will help get you laid and more if you’re looking for more.